There is a strong personality difference between a millioniare diva and a non-millionaire diva.  They act and do things that contribute to what type of life they will have. Which one are you? Here are some character traits that both possess that will help you determine which category you may fall under.

Non-Millionaire Diva                                        Millionaire Diva

negative attitude                                               Positive attitude

Poverty consciousness                                       Wealth Consciousness

Complains about money                                     blesses money

In fear:angry, resentful, non-forgiving                  In Love:happy, forgiving

Stingy                                                              giving

No saving, no investments                                  Save and invest all the time

Spends money on liabilities                                  Invest money on assets

Financial illiterate                                                Financially savvy

Lazy                                                                 Willing to work for free

Not responsible                                                 Take responsibilty for their financial situation

Spends money                                                  Saves money

Does not invest in financial education                   Has a financial education budget

Has no prosperous family, friends or associates    Has a prosperous circle of influence

If you are saying yes more in either category then that category is the type of Diva you are. A millioniare diva is a mind-set.  It is not about how much you have in the bank as much as it is about how many millions you have in your mind-your consciousness. If on the other hand, you, honestly, see yourself in the non-millioniare divia column then you are only a thought away from shifting to the millioniare diva. If you notice the millionaire diva is happy, has satisfying relationships and a good life in general. Not a perfect life but a good life. And isn’t that what we all are truly striving for. It has nothing to do with the money.  It has everything to do with having the right consciousness.

Are you a millioniare diva or a non-millioniare diva? Please post comments. I’d love to hear your opinion….

Have a Dynamic Diva Day,

Elon Bomani 

I am a single mother of a 14 y/o young man and I must admit that I too must began to let go and let my son find out things without me trying to protect him from the world because I do still see him as my baby. But my question is how long should I let him fall? I have worked hard to provide my son with things without the support of his father, but it seems the more I try to protect, the more defiant he becomes. He has even begun to disregard his school work.

 He was placed in advanced level classes and now he does none of his work no matter how supportive I try to be. I only wish that my son will become a successful person in this world and maybe someday take care of his mother if possible, but at this rate it doesn’t look too good. Help me please!

EA

 Dear Diva:
Have you told your son you love him today and have you given him a hug. You are in fear with your relationship with your son because of the fear you have about men in general.  You are putting a heavy burden on him to be the man in your life and he is resenting the responsibility.  You should not depend on him or any man to take care of you when you get older. Your well being is your responsibility for the rest of your life.  Treat you the way you want your son to treat you. This is a fear based relationship and very controlling on your part. There is a saying to heal the child, heal the parent.  I think it is a good idea for you to get spiritual counseling. 

 It is okay. No one comes into this earth with directions on how to best raise a child. You have depended on you solely to take on the responsibility and now you do need help. Do the spiritual work. Let go and let God with your son. Take the time to dig deep inside of you to find the answers as to how you feel about men. I will assure you, you are treating the men in your life the way you son is treating you.  Children present to us our deepest and darkest stuff.
Take the time to love and honor yourself. See yourself as having done a fine job raising your son. And get rid of the guilt and shame of having to raise him alone.  Get rid of the anger, resentment and fear towards your father and his father. He does love you and he does care about you. But it is very important that you help your son and not enable him. The best way to help him is to help yourself.
Healed Single Mother,
Diva

Mothers all need help and we have to becoming very comfortable of receiving help. We do not have to do it all or know it all.

Dear Diva,
  
  I am a mother of three beautiful boys. Yes, I am a single black mother, but
sometimes it feels like I have help-the father is around. He come’s and go’s as he
pleases. I want to keep the door open for my children, but I want him to be a
better father. He says things like, he wants to be there, but he can’t because he
does not get along with my family and the town. Where I stay the young males are
always fighting, shooting, and ganging, and he say he does not want part in that.
I really do respect that, but then to, he doesn’t come around two and three weeks.
I love him, and he tells me that I am the one he will marry. But he has to
girlfriends in the town he works. He tells me all the time that no one will want
me with three kids, and now I am starting to believe it. What is a girl to do?

      Dear Diva:

You and those beautiful boys deserves the very best your spirit has to offer. The only real and true relationship that you will every have is between you and God.  Depending on a Man to find you happiness is the quickest way to unhappiness. To err is to be human. It is now time to honor yourself and honor your boys by focusing your energies on providing a better way out of no way. Love is a verb. It is an action. If he is not financial, emotionally and physically supporting your endeavors of raising health boys, then he does not love you nor the boys. Even so, he is the father of the boys, so let them see him as long as the relationship bears some form of productiveness.  The boys know if they father loves them or not. In your case, you think love must hurt to be real and that is not true. Love honors, respect and makes you real good all the time. When true love is around it does not hurt, it empowers.

Him telling you that you will not find a man with three children, is not love.  It is control. I know a sister with 6 kids by another man who found love because she believes she is worthy and started looking for love inside of herself. So, the divine Diva manifested it in the physical. So, associate with good people. Take you and your children outside of your surrounding to find your peace.  It may mean moving to another state or place. You do not have to settle or believe what other believe about you. 

Say this chant over and over until it becomes apart of you and I know you will create a different life for you and your boys. Your boys are depending on you to show them how a man is suppose to treat a woman. The example that you are exposing them to are not healthy. It is your responsibility to teach them better. You can do it, you must do it.

I am a dynamic diva and I deserve the very best that life has to offer: a healthy relationship with me and for me and my boys. 

I love you,

Diva

I shared “ask the diva” with you today because this type of relationship all Divas of various race, creeds and other experience: staying in toxic relationship that do not honor them out of fear and not love. 

You are welcome to “ask the diva” at www.thedynamicdiva.com/ask.html

Please let’s engage in comments to help heal each other…….

Peace,

Elon  

Divas, have I got a great e-book for you! I promised I was going to write Good Debt Riches and it is finally available at http://www.gooddebtriches.com.

This book is a must read because your credit history is so important and the type and amount of debt you have today can determine what type of job you can get, if you can rent a car or a hotel, and you need credit to buy just about everything that is a neccessity in life:house, car and life insurance.

So, Divas, it is paramount that you learn how to build, repair and leverage your credit to profit. But one of the key points of this e-book that most financial gurus are not talking nor writing about it that to increase your wealth substantially you have to go deep in debt. Yes, you heard me right, you have to have a lot of debt if you want to accummulate a lot of wealth.  

To buy a house today it cost on average around $250,000. Well, with the use of OPM-other people money,you can own the house with no money down. But if you can buy a duplex with OPM and gain a positive cash flow from the duplex,you have created good debt. Good debt is when you debt makes money for you. 

I know you’ve been taught that you need to become debt free to acquire wealth.Yes,this is true to some extent. You need to be bad debt free. Bad debt creates liabilities that take money out of your pocket and is not an asset.

If you want to learn more about the difference between good debt and bad debt or good credit vs. bad credit,then get “Good Debt Riches”. Moreover, if you want to learn who you can develop into a credit millionaire that will allow you to profit big time from purchasing houses, cars and business,you need to go to http://www.gooddebtriches.com now.

If you want to learn more about Good Debt riches tip for free, go to http://www.gooddebtriches.com and sign up for some free good debt advice.

Have a Dynamic Diva Dollars day,

 Elon 

The Diabetic Diva called me from the doctors office extremely elated. All of her number are great after only being on the program I devised for her for 8 days! Eight days and she has almost a complete reversal experience.

Better yet, the black color from her gangrene ulcerated foot is almost gone afer 3 weeks. She has more energy and a new lease on life. The Diabetic Diva is doing divine!

Can you imagine by just doing some truly simple, doable things like eating wholesome nutritious foods (vegan raw food diet) taking vitamin, herbs and other supplements, exercising, socializing and being happy, drinking plenty of water, and getting fresh air and sunshine, you can save your life!

Well, it is true. This has not been the easiest road for Diabetic Diva but it sure has proven to be the most beneficial. The doctors told her to keep doing what she is doing because it is working.

If you have anyone who is diabetic encourage them to educate themselves about alternative and holistic modalities that my help them heal, too.

The Best of health to ya,

Elon 

Can you say Imus put his foot in his mouth? Maybe he should have kept it there. He called the Rutger’s Womens Basketball team “nappy headed hos”.  According to Imus, he is not a racist and it was said as a joke that went too far.

 As an African American Woman, Rutgers University alumni and supporter of Vivian Stringer and the Rutgers Unversity Womens Basketball Team, I feel obligated to address the matter because I have received phone calls and emails from very irate African American Women about the blatant disrespect Imus displayed on the radio airwaves.

I have had a chance, over the last 4 days, to marinate over his comments, public opinion and how the African American community feels about the matter. My assessment about Imus is an assessment of the larger society depiction of African American Women.

First, I say to African American Women, it is very important that you define yourself. That is why I call Black women and all women Dynamic Divas. I am clear that if you do not define who and what you are other people will and you will be easily influenced to follow what they dictate. So, I was not angered by what Imus stated because I do not identity with it nor do I give it any of my precious power and neither should you. I can remember what Iyanla Vanzant stated,”If a man calls you a dog that doesn’t mean you have to bark”. 

As a Dynamic Diva, I understand that it is not about Imus but it has everything to do with Imus. What I mean is this. The chickens have come home to roost and we women have an opportunity to deal with the real issue at hand-we are responsible in an indirect way for this countries tendency to be very anti-women and anti-black. The best way to heal our society of these major afflictions is to do it with a display of tough love;because Divas do everything in the name of love.

So, here is how we can successfully remedy the Imus debacle: an American debacle. Like I mentioned previously, I do not give any of my power or energy to anything or anyone that does not honor the diva within me. As a conscious capitalist living in a capitalist society and understanding that money is only an expression of love. I will not give my money (love) to support the radio station that gives Imus his paycheck which is a stamp of approval. I will not patronage the major companies that advertise during his air time nor will I support the guest that appear on his show to promote their product, service or cause.

If his show does not get the financial support he will no longer be on the radio. And, we women will have taken a stand that we nor our family will honor those who do not honor us and have our best interest at heart.  So, Divas of all race, creed and colors put your money where your month is. And tell every male in your life your sons, dads, uncle and granddads and male friends that you will hold them responsible for the continued anti-women onslaught if they sit idly by while such misogynistic conduct remains on the airwaves.

I reinterate, Imus does not have a voice unless it is supported by the radio stations and the advertisers during his air time. We have to address them with our letters, votes and divesting of financial support. If the presidential candidate McCain will go on his show after knowing where this man stand about women,we will take our vote and our dollars to support the candidate or businessmen that honors us like, Cal Ripken Jr. He decided that he did not want to be associated with anyone who represented anti-women retoric. Good Job, Cal Ripken!

If you do not stand up for something, you will fall for anything-Martin Luther King,Jr.

You have to talk to them in the language that they understand the almighty green dollar. Should Imus be forgiven? Of course, but he should be dismissed from his job. And, I recommend some spiritual counseling.  This action will send a clear message that Divas will “just say no” in a very loving way to anything that does not honor us as women and the divine spirit within each and everyone of us.

Let’s send Imus off the airwaves with love and send a message to the major corporations that they can no longer do business as usual.

 Have a Dynamic Diva Day,

 Elon

I have gone to several business opportunities recently and I have enjoyed them all.

Network Marketing is a great business for Divas because:

1. Divas are natural born selling-we are always referring our family, friends and associates about products or services that we love why not get paid to do it.
2. Divas a natural socialites- we love to mix and mingle and gather people together for a good cause.
3. Divas can work network marketing business into their hectic schedule because the can do it on their own terms.
4. Divas can do network marketing while raising kids-take them to the business meetings.
5. Divas can own a legtimate business with the potential of earning a substantial income on a shoe-string budget.
6. Divas do not need to have experience. You can learn while you earn.

This are just some of the few reason why I think women who want to start a home-based business on a part-time and full-time basis should consider network marketing.  There are tons of them out there that may coincide with what you love to do. For example, if you love to help people solve their financial problems, you can join a financial service network marketing company.

Network Marketing is a legitimate business opportunity that my help you, Diva, accomplish some of your wealth Dreams.

What network marketing business opportunity would you like to do?

Prosperity to ya,

Elon 

Most people may be curious to know how I able to be a multi-tasking work-at-home mom. I have the fortune of having a great husband who is retired and works-at-home with me.

Our days are very busy juggling the act of raising a family and several businesses. We are a Dynamic Diva Dream team!

It is so important to have someone in your corner that will help to fortify your wealth dreams and you do the same for them.  With us, sometimes the follower becomes the leader and sometime the leader becomes the follower depending on what task we are doing.  For example, my husband is a better cook than I, so he cooks most of the meals in the house. In turn, I am better with the finances, so I will take care of the bills and the business plans.

Now, we did not get here overnight! It took a lot of work and we still go weekly to spiritual counseling to keep our relationship strengthened.  This is an Ancient African custom that you have a spiritual advisor you work with to help balance and bless the union. It has saved and fortified our marriage.

Our partnership is not perfect but it is on purpose.

How do you work with your mate to serve your family needs and each other? Please share.

Have a Dynamic Diva Day,

Elon